My Partner and Friend,

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Why Marriage, Pre-engaged, and Dating Ministry?

01 — An Army of Couples

Ephesians 4:11-12 states “Now these are the gifts Christ gave to the church: the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, and the pastors and teachers. Their responsibility is to equip God’s people to do his work and build up the church, the body of Christ.”

02 — Correction & Teaching

2 Timothy 3:16-17 “All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.

03 — Equipped & Preparation

Hebrews 13:20-21 “Now the God of peace, who brought up from the dead the great Shepherd of the sheep through the blood of the eternal covenant, even Jesus our Lord, equip you in every good thing to do His will, working in us that which is pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be the glory forever and ever. Amen.

04 — A Kingdom Marriage

Genesis 2:24-25 “For this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother and shall be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.” God has principles in His Word and a blueprint for marriages to shape their union in order to achieve a Kingdom marriage.

05 — Leaving a Legacy

Malachi 2:15 “God wants godly children from your union”. We need to create a legacy of godly marriage to our next generations.

Our Biography:

Daniel and Gwen are Ordained Ministers-NACM, Marriage Ministry Leaders-Ashford Community Church, Certified XO Marriage Mediators, Certified Marriage Mentors, Certified Symbis Facilitators, Doctor of Physical Therapy, Licensed Financial and Retirement Consultant

Our Prayer

That our unions exemplify heavenly reflections here on earth, just like Jesus and His bride.

Be equipped, trained, and empowered to do the works of the Kingdom.

Daniel’s Testimony

My name is Daniel. Gwen and I got married in 1996. In 1998, a marriage conference we attended became a turning point for me. As a Christian, I love the Lord, yet my understanding of marriage was limited to loving and caring for my wife. During the conference, a speaker candidly shared his personal battles, including pornography, infidelity, and domineering behavior towards his wife. His transparency before the large congregation struck a chord with me, and I felt a strong conviction from the Holy Spirit. I had never witnessed such openness from a preacher in public. After the conference, I felt compelled to leave immediately. I’m driving home, I experienced a profound encounter with the Holy Spirit that softened my heart. I realized the need to confess my wrongdoings to Gwen, including verbal abuse, addiction to pornography, lust, past transgressions, dominance in our relationship, anger, and poor financial control. Our frequent arguments stemmed from my inability to manage my anger and frustrations. Despite my love for her, I struggled to navigate our issues. In a moment of vulnerability, I confessed my actions to Gwen, which brought me to tears for hours. I knelt before her, held her hands, overwhelmed with feelings of dirtiness, guilt, remorse, sadness, and a heavy heart. After I asked for forgiveness, I found peace, freedom, and a sense of purification. My prayer and confession helped me comprehend the essence of James 5:16. Subsequently, the conference offered follow-up visits for interested couples, providing one-on-one mentorship and discipleship. The leader assigned to us dedicated 14 months to guide us through biblical teachings on marriage. I was leading a small group at the time and informed them that I would be stepping down temporarily without disclosing the reason. It was a period when we needed mentoring and discipleship, which lasted 14 months. After the Lord healed and restored our marriage, we prayed and sought His guidance for our next steps. The Lord instilled in us a compassion to support other married couples. Our parents were the first participants in the marriage class. We sat with them, shared, and explained what the Bible says about marriage. Later, we returned to the Philippines and shared these biblical principles of marriage with Gwen’s parents. We used the Manual to mentor and disciple our parents, our friends and their acquaintances who also found victory through discipleship. We also used to equip our previous congregation, other churches, and their leaders through a cell group model. The Lord gave me scriptures: The account of the ten lepers, where only one returned to thank Jesus while the other nine did not, is found in Luke 17. I began to perceive struggling marriages and hurting families in the spirit. We inquired of the Lord about how to reach out to them. The Holy Spirit led me to John 15:16; You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit

Gwen’s Testimony

My name is Gwen. When we got married in 1998, Daniel and I were united by our faith in Christ. We have steadfast commitment to our vows, anchored by Romans 8:38-39 and we have a firm belief that divorce was not an option. However, our marriage faced severe trials in the first 2 years that led to mutual disdain. I would always initiate persistent arguments. My unrelenting jealousy, uncontrolled anger, mistrust, fear to reveal the shadows of my past, disappointments, and allowing deceitful thoughts about my husband all drove a wedge between us. It felt like a nightmare I desperately wanted to escape. I felt unsafe to share our struggles and marriage battles with fellow believers or find a confidant for accountability. No one really knows we are struggling as a married couple. I felt so alone and wrestled with doubts whether this marriage is worth fighting for. The steps I took to personally heal and transform our marriage required significant effort on my part. The process was painful and demanded extreme vulnerability and truthfulness. I have to change in this marriage and not blame Daniel. I admitted that I brought undesirable baggage from my past that affected our marriage. I confessed to Daniel all my fears and ungodly expectations so I can have freedom. I learned to forgive. I credit it all to Jesus when our marriage was healed in 1998. It was solely by God’s grace and mercy and my decision to embrace the fear of the Lord and humility that I persevered until my breakthrough. The Lord’s goodness prevailed! The Holy Spirit carved a path for us, guiding us towards healing at a marriage retreat, experiencing mentorship and transparency. Our healing journey inspired us to create our Marriage Manual called “Return to Your First Love”, encapsulating our trials and triumphs. Our service and love to married couples flourished for 25 years since our marriage was healed and restored. We expanded it to serve those who are preparing for engagement.

Our Scriptures

And why isn't God pleased? It's because he knows that each of you men has been unfaithful to the wife you married when you were young. You promised that she would be your partner, but now you have broken that promise.

Malachi 2:14 CEV

The Lord would speak with Moses face-to-face, just as someone speaks with a friend. Then Moses would return to the camp. But the young man who was his helper, Joshua son of Nun, stayed in the Tent.

Exodus 33:11 GNT

While we were still God’s enemies, God’s Son died on our behalf. As a result, we became God’s friends. So, now that we are God’s friends, his Son will certainly save us. Christ will save us because he is alive again. 11 But that is not everything! We are very happy now because of what God has done for us. Our Lord Jesus Christ has made this possible. It is because of him that we have now become God’s friends.

Romans 5:10-11 EEB

I do not call you servants any longer, because servants do not know what their master is doing. Instead, I call you friends, because I have told you everything I heard from my Father.

John 15:15 GNT

And the Scripture was fulfilled which says, “And Abraham believed God, and it was reckoned to him as righteousness,” and he was called the friend of God.

James 2:23 NIV